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(For how i crafted these quotes, see What i changed in survey-takers' responses and What i didn't change.)
We don't have to explain or justify ourselves to you.
It's not about you!
Our struggles are similar to what you went through when you were young. But we're coming to terms with being queer or trans at the same time as we're growing up.
Step away from your own beliefs so you can really hear me.
Don't make my identity about yourself by, for instance, saying, "I'm trying my best, but with all these changes, you know it's gonna take time."
"cishet adults should actually take time to listen and learn, not just assume theyre right about the world they perfectly fit into because theyre older."
"They don't really talk to me much about queer issues or anything of the sort; it would mean so much if they would just ask 'what can I do to support you' and give me the space to have my voice heard."
